Welcome to all!!!! The purpose of this blog is to give ya'll a place to post your story, warn others, and get some support. My story could go on and on and on. At my age you'd think I'd know how to pick a mate --- wrong!!! As my counselor tells me: "Your picker is broken!" Long story short for starters -- I'm a Christian and I had prayed and prayed for a man who was active in church. Well, be careful what you pray for! I got one! He was a part-time preacher, bible teacher, and song leader. Wonderful, right??? Wrong!!!! I'll give more details later but it turns out this guy has been diagnosed 5 times as a Narcissist. If you are reading this, you probably know something about what that means. If you don't, just plug the word into google and you'll have hours of reading. In short, the only thing this guy was interested in was himself and his appearance. I was an "object" to him and he needed a wife to look good in church. Enough for this entry....I'll be back!